When I watched the clips of my mother -in -law, gave gold and silver to my daughter -in -law online, my heart secretly wished that one day I could also stand in that position.My college friends often joke with each other"Married to see if his parents are rich or not, they give themselves. But must be liberal so that we can go home and collect gold and silver."
Of course such carefree thoughts are only three gossip.As a girl who graduated with a prestigious university, I believe I don't have to rely on anyone after getting married.I have to have a separate career, a solid economy so that my relatives do not dare to despise and support my husband.
Indeed, with power and effort, I was able to reach significant achievements.From buying houses, buying cars, buying land to save banks, investment, business ... but perhaps most proud is that I become a university lecturer - the job I always dream of.
At the age of 32, after reaping many of the above good results, I considered getting married.At the same time, I met the school as a 2 -year -old man.This guy has a mischievous, youthful feature that I love but sometimes still very mature and mature.The school was the cousin of a friend who played for a long time.
In general, this guy's background is okay, according to the "investigation", it is not poor but not too rich.Especially, the school has a great deal, hard -working, is a virtue that not every man owns.How many times he went on a date and he still opened the laptop to work.
When I was in love with enough maturity, I talked to my parents so that the two grandparents were mentally prepared.But because the school's barrier had no private house, my parents initially protested intensely.Besides, the school is younger than me, my parents are afraid that I will be older later, ugly, men if not loyal is very easy to fall.
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My school's love is so big that I have been arguing about my parents even though I was a docile daughter who was easy to say.I think that I have a home, no need to ask for money so I will choose a man who loves truly.It's okay to buy at home with my wife's house?
After a long time of struggle, my parents finally followed my opinion.The two grandparents were no longer objectionable as before, even though I knew there were many encroachments.Contrary to the strictness of my family, my husband's house was comfortable and nodded in agreement.
The wedding took place 2 months ago.But one thing happened later made me think ...
Just married for about 1 week, my mother -in -law called me and my husband.She gave me the red book, telling me naturally made me froze:"I want to give this red book to you. Now the family is in the house is the control of the couple. You can do whatever you want."
I asked again with doubt:"My husband and I have home, what else do I do this?"
The mother -in -law still insisted:"Just take it, I will come! I completely believe me!"
I was like opening a flag in my stomach, oh my mother -in -law was in a dream?
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However, the joy was very short, I did not dare to believe in this truth.My mother -in -law, after handing over, the real estate control for me, told me everywhere about it.And yet, she also told the neighbors - who was very close to my family that the purpose of handing me the red book was so that I would think about selling and buying for her a new house spacious and beautiful.than.The neighbor's sister told me my mother -in -law's words:"My daughter -in -law lacks money, a genuine house is not worth it compared to its huge fortune."
Moments, I shivered to my mother -in -law.When I was a bride, did you plan me like that?If the mother -in -law's thoughts are exactly what she said, indeed her mother -in -law is very high.Because she made her daughter -in -law not skeptical, on the contrary, she was very appreciated and had no defense.
Everyone, should my mother -in -law plan like that, should I ignore it?