Vietnamese people often teach their children from an early age, from morality to human to communication.However, in the polite way of communication taught, I have never heard of a father or mother teaching my children: Never ruin the fun of others!
In fact, I am not good at or cough, just before doing work in the office environment, I used to work as a maid in a wealthy family, my husband is a foreigner, my wife is Vietnamese.Their family has two young sons, foreign fathers always tell the children as above, I heard, so that in the stomach, until I worked as a crop to understand.
Well, I forgot to remind everyone.I am an old lady with 10 years of working experience in the company's offices.I am the one who shared two articles"In the workplace environment, never think that someone must be obliged to help you"and"Fragrant, don't be too fragrant, so excessive perfume only makes colleagues afraid of death".
The fun of the office workers and the "ungainly" individuals "
Today, I would like to share the issue as mentioned from the beginning about the way of communication of the office workers.They often make a mistake that makes colleagues bored, which is to release ungainly sayings that damage the happy mood of others.
I am not exaggerated, what I tell about is coming here based on what I hear, see and know, surely the majority of office workers, especially the sisters' Union will feel very familiar.
For example: Returning to work after a long vacation, the Council gathered together to tell about trips, parties with a happy mood.However, in which, more or less appears a few ungainly and "inferior" individuals.
A said that the day I went to Vung Tau with my lover, Ms. B jumped in and pouted:"Vung Tau is not happy, bored and tried to crawl."
C recounted her home, she made a family party, the family gathered extremely happy, Ms. B continued to peel the mango and said:"The ceremony is at home, enlightenment. It is like 364 days in the street, so it takes a day at home to organize a party."
D tells his ceremony nothing special, only one night gathered old friends to dance at the bar, Ms. B launched into the rock again:"Those places all of them played, raced, came to do to be evaluated by people."
Well, Ms. B kept waiting for people to say what the story during the holidays was like they would jump in or decry, or sarcasm that made all the surrounding colleagues uncomfortable.But just like the sentence I or mind"Sometimes people can only see the pile of rubbish on others without being able to recognize the trash on their heads."Ms. B never thought that she was very poor.
And yet, almost the same above, another girl named T in the office where I worked cleaning, every lunch break of colleagues discussed what to eat, she flooded into the waist.Extremely ungainly.For example, colleagues invited each other out to eat bean bean"Very rotten shrimp sauce";Colleague lamented durian craving, Ms. T continued to criticize"I heard it was all nose", ...
Advice from the workplace: Never ruin the fun of others!
That's it, in the above stories, individuals who are less charming like Ms. T and Ms. B I call them an expert to destroy the fun of others.
I agree that each person has a head with a different way of thinking, both aesthetic, art, and cuisine.Bad concepts, delicious-delicious, funny fun.But that does not mean that we have the right to use words to insult the emotions of others.
Especially in the workplace environment, it requires that each person needs to be skillful in the way of speaking, the individuals with the above characteristics are easy to be hated and boycotted by colleagues.
Don't think you're just joking.Happy for themselves but others are not happy, especially when they say anything is blamed.Just happy, don't be so happy, everything has a level, once it has exceeded the limit of jokes, sometimes the disaster comes.Colleagues once hated it, no one can last long in the workplace.
Remember, the boundary between funny and ungainly jokes like a hair.And if you are not taught by parents, let this old lady repeat the sincere advice: Never ruin the fun of others!