Compared to teaching a son, fathers will be much more difficult if teaching a daughter.There will be a lot of things that he faces and struggling to know how to handle it.
Choosing to help you a skirt for dolls is simple.Also choose, orient your child confidence, self -esteem in a new life hard!
If you want your daughter to grow up happiness and live a peaceful life, all fathers need to remember carefully and teach children the following 10 expensive lessons:
1. You are very beautiful
The encouragement and recognition of appearance from the close people, especially the father will make the girls feel more confident.Fathers tell girls, how beautiful you look in a new dress or hairstyle.
This will make girls more confident and self -esteem.Besides, Dad also do not forget to remind you that the beauty of the soul is as important as the beauty of appearance.
2. I am always concerned by my father
Dad always care about what girls read, play and study at school.In addition to listening to your life, I should also share the opposite of what happens in your life.
Psychologists have also researched and pointed out that girls with warm fathers, caring for personal interests will often be more successful in adulthood.
3. I am unconditional love
Fathers let daughter know, I love you no matter what happens.I can stumble or commit wrongdoings that disappointed Dad, but whatever you are, my father's love for me forever has not changed.
Psychologists believe that girls who are not loved and supported are often dependent on the men they choose to live in life later.
Because they are not loved from an early age, they always doubt, whether the things they do are enough to hold on to their lover.This leads to them being bewildered or tended to rely on their boyfriends, or their partners.
4. You can do anything
Fathers help girls realize, without any work that "only boys can do" or "only girls have to do".Help you believe that you can do whatever you want without depending on others.
As a father, you can teach your daughter to fix a leaked tap or change the tire when the child is old enough.In this way, fathers will enhance confidence and self -esteem for girls, helping children solve problems encountered at school, at work or in personal life later.
5. You are an independent girl
Fathers often tend to protect their small princesses from the crowded, struggling in the vast and devastating world out there.But this is not always good.The better choice that fathers need to choose is to let girls know that they can always rely on their father but still be responsible for their mistakes.
6. I deserve the best thing
This simple truth will help your daughter strong and firm in life later.At the same time, it also helps girls not to fall into a compromise and endure a relationship or a bad job, just because they think they are not worthy.
7. I have the right to refuse
Fathers teach your daughter to protect your personal boundaries, both physically and mentally.Dad explained to you that nothing is completely fine when it comes to protecting your safety and comfort.In all cases, if you feel uncomfortable and dangerous, be ready to say "Are not".
To teach girls this, psychologists give advice to fathers to ask children "Is it okay?"In everyday situations, such as expressing affection or posting children on social networking sites.
8. You should be proud of myself
If the fathers often praise their daughter anytime, everywhere with phrases such as: "I do well", "It is true that a good girl" ... Long time, these reward sentences will bebecomes losing meaning, innocuous.
Instead, Dad supports his daughter by praising his specific achievements and encouraging him to be proud of his own achievements.
If your daughter achieves the confidence from deep within the soul, the girl who grows up will not be dependent on others.
9. The failure has nothing big
It is good if you teach your daughter to target high goals and put all your best to achieve.But it is very important that I need to teach me more, even if there is a failure, there is nothing big and we can stand up, more successful thanks to the failures in life.
10. Men and women should respect each other
This should be a lesson that every child needs to be taught from both parents.When a girl sees that her parents can solve any problem with a peaceful discussion, she will understand the equality and the right interaction between men and women.
Dad treat other women the way you want your daughter to be treated by other men.Avoid gender discrimination, and care about what you say about your female colleagues, friends and relatives.
Dad should remember, the girl who is listening to all the words of her and her father is the model of the ideal man in her heart.