A child who grows up is confident, successful or not depends greatly on the way of education and parenting.If the son grew up more talented than people, from an early age, parents need to avoid the following discourse statements:
"I'm not good at the same thing."
Many mothers often have bad habits, which is to quarrel with their husbands right in front of their children.When there is something that is not satisfied, instead of talking privately they are angry, loud and unable to keep their face.
And yet, she turned to scold her son again:"I am not talented just like Dad"or "2 father and son could not help her mother ".If this condition lasts, I will feel inferiority and discourage.I even have a feeling of hate, alienation and do not want to be close to my mother.
"Boys can't cry"
BecauseWant a strong, sturdy sonSo many parents often do not allow their children to be mushy and tears.However, even if a boy is still young and has the right to express his true feelings.
When pain or sadness, I have the right to cry like anyone.If parents keep banned: "Boys can't cry "or "The boy cried people laughing "will cause children to pressure.
I do not dare to express the true feelings and always feel tired and heavy because of the mood.Increasing warmth will affect your child's psychological and personality development.
Instead of optimism, love your life can become inferior, shy, even depressed.
"People are better than children"
Along with the sentence"I'm not good at the same thing."then"People are more talented than children"It is also a sentence that makes children seriously hurt mentally.
Despite knowing more parents when comparing their children to other children just to stimulate their learning spirit.But that not only does not benefit but also has negative consequences.
Not only does his son lose confidence, but his parents also indirectly make their children feel jealous and hate the child's parents to compare with them.