On the page "Story of Phong", Mr. Nguyen Anh Phong (one of the operators of the network of people living with HIV Vietnam, VNP+) shared the confidences of young men who were frigid with sex.It is known that because of curiosity, wanting to find the feeling of "sung sung" that young men had "sex" with many people of the same sex.However, he felt that everything was not satisfied as he wanted.And according to this young man, he "not only was not attracted by sex but also had sexually transmitted disease".
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Sex with sex appears in many young people
The story is brief but makes Mr. Nguyen Anh Phong obsessed.Experts say that in reality, there are many people of very young age who are frigid with sex like this young man.Many people will think that "because they have not earned a suitable man throughout their lives", or think that such people are fake ethics, tragic problems ...
In fact, there are people with apathetic syndrome.Not only the elderly, older people have prostate problems or emotions, desire, menopause ... but today, there is no shortage of young people who are completely apathetic to sex.
This may be because life is so harsh, pressure and fatigue, making yourself want to stay away from sex.Sometimes past obsessions such as sexual abuse, harassment ... will cause prolonged psychological problems, even throughout life.
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In addition, there are people who are under sexual pressure, such as not knowing what "to reach the top" is like.Many people do not know what is sex but have been "shadow" psychologically, for example, many boys want to wear skirts, say fake girls ... When they grow up, they think they choose gay men dating isfinished.But when "in the game" realized my body was not prepared for that ...
On the contrary, many boys grew up to determine that they would get used to and stick with a girl but at the side was not happy.But he insisted that he could not be gay man, could not belong to LGBT world, even though he was so close to any girl.Like a male in class but have to struggle to think that he is a man, have to stay away from it ... and then fall into sexual feelings that cannot be liberated.
Sex with sex comes from determining sexual trends at the time before puberty should not be willing.This makes many people fall into the way to find the question "who am I".Everyone looks for pleasure, pleasure, everyone knows what it is.I don't know.That's why there are things like the boy said.
"The tragedy comes to you from the sexual pressure for the partner," the expert explained.Not only for homosexuals but also the heterosexual people also encounter similar situations.
The story is a lesson for people with similar feelings.If you also fall in the sex vortex as above, share it with experts to find a change direction, do not leave until sexually affected by sex, will double the pain.
What should HIV infection?
Unfortunately for the boy in the above story was HIV.However, Dr. Nguyen Tan Thu (working in Ho Chi Minh City) advised, the important thing now is that the guy needs to stop action, determine the right cause and parallel HIV treatment.
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With homosexual sex, the HIV infection rate is 75%high.In addition to the risk of HIV infection, homosexual relations are also susceptible to sexually transmitted diseases such as gonorrhea, syphilis, genital herpes.
Therefore, when having sex in general, homosexual sex in particular, condoms must be used to prevent the risk of infection of dangerous sexually transmitted diseases.
To avoid the risk of infection during sex, you can also conduct preventive treatment before exposure Prep.Pre -exposure treatment for HIV - Prep is the use of anti -HIV (ARV) drugs to prevent HIV transmission to people who have not been HIV -infected but have high risks of HIV infection.If you have been infected with HIV, it should also be used to inhibit the HIV virus that does not multiply, thereby helping HIV -infected people to live healthy and not spread to others.
Prep is highly evaluated by experts to prevent HIV infection.Clinical trial proves that the use of Prep may reduce the risk of HIV infection by more than 90%.
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