On September 23, social networks continuously shared a clip about a training session with the status line "The whole hall crying when members lacked efforts, lack of KPI KPI was flicked by the president".
Specifically, in the training session, the leader gave the person constantly stretching many elastic straps wearing on the wrist of the two girls and turned strongly.The force was strong and stretched, causing the hands of the two girls to participate in red, blushing.The game is explained to "illustrate the strength of the team, the solidarity and the disadvantage of the leader".
After the above program, the incident caused noise across social networking sites, the girl directly participated in this "punishment" challenge has spoken out, she felt very painful, the feeling of discomfort could not overcome.However, the girl thinks that this is just a normal challenge in countless scary challenges that the system sellers must overcome when participating in training courses ...
Photo cut from the clip.
Talking to PV, Master of Psychology Nguyen Phuong Thao (Vinuni University Psychology Experts) said that the video recorded at a certain time may not be enough to clearly assess the situation.Like culture in this company.
“Not to mention right or wrong, what makes many people extremely confusing and psychologically because in the situation of being painful about the body and suffering from mental damage, many participants are still copper.The intention to continue and support this approach, even share the usefulness and feel motivated? ”.
Master of Psychology Nguyen Phuong Thao.
In many other cases, not only for work but in the family, schools ... there are people who will accept themselves in situations where the majority of others think is very abnormal or even causing damage.Harm for them.
According to Master Thao, there may be many psychological effects and special reasons that make each person's awareness of "what's normal" is different.Similarly, there may also be contexts and personal reasons that make each person, before the same situation, there will be different reactions and behaviors.
"For example, there is an idiom in English as" boiling frog " - roughly translated as" the frog is cooked ".It is an illustration of being pressured or slightly damaged and little by little, people normalize and easily accept it.Like a frog when it was boiled, at first the warm water, the frog kept sitting in the pot because it could withstand it, even though it jumped out at any time.But then the water kept heating, heating up, and the frog would die in the pot when not knowing.However, if you drop the frog into a pot of hot water from the beginning, it will jump out immediately.Thus, do we understand how someone has gone through the process of 'living' in a pot of water? "
Thao also added that the psychology of video viewers and participants is also very different.“Our viewers may be sitting in a safe room, with relaxing psychology and holding the phone for entertainment.But imagine that you are placed in a pressure situation in front of the crowd, suffering from challenges and damage to both body and words.Then suddenly after that, someone hugged and comforted to encourage you and the crowd at that time to admit and acclaim you.For you at that time it was a miracle moment!Especially compared to the previous minute, these things were even enough to cry.That is why while the participants voluntarily and support this program, many viewers feel it is extremely unusual. ”
For the situation in the game, psychologist said that businesses need to consider the training program to ensure a professional environment.The shot of the elastic is an act of pain and damage to the body, accompanied by words and attitudes that put great pressure on mental.
Deliberately harming the health and spirit of others, whether for any purpose, is not to be supported.It is necessary to determine the safety and legal limits for activities in a professional office environment to protect both workers and businesses, not to let emotions overwhelm when building the program.Above all, each individual should also understand his rights, make wise choices when participating in activities.
"Only when we love ourselves and take care of our health and spirit for ourselves, then we will really be motivated to develop the most comprehensive", ",Experts share.
The image is spread widely on social networks.
Also talking about the above situation, Mr. Tran Van Tuan (a director of the event organization) shared, not in the context and training content of the other company, so it is difficult to understand that they have disseminated the rules.As the law in their training program.
However, in terms of form, it can be noticed that the actions of players in the program are a "punishment", not a game in teambuilding.
“As a game maker, safety is number 1 and is extremely important for participants.The game must bring positive values and lessons, encouraging and encouraging participants ”,This person emphasized.