More than 1 week ago, my mother had a stroke, had to be hospitalized for treatment.The family only had two brothers, my younger brother lived and worked in the South so everything took care of my mother because my husband and I took care of it.

Determining her illness had to be hospitalized for a long time because of the need for a lot of recovery time, the couple divided the tasks to be able to take care of her.In the evening, after the agency, I will look up and sleep in the hospital, while taking care of my mother during the day is my wife's job.

Fortunately, children have grown up, can take the initiative to go to school so my wife and I can spend all time with my mother.The doctor said, thanks to early detection and emergency, my mother recovered quite quickly;Treatment time will shorten.Currently, she can cling to the wall, not paralyzed on the bed like the first day.

Before he was happy because of his mother's progress, my wife and my wife had disagreements.Knowing that his wife's work was quite leisurely, the agency was close to the hospital, could be flexible to travel, so I told my wife to arrange the daytime time to support her to eat and drink.

The first few days, everything was quite good, but on the 5th day my wife started to sigh.The wife told her to go to the office for a while and she had to run to the hospital so her work was backlog, not completed.I reminded my wife to try to overcome it by making up;The family has sick people, probably the boss also sympathize.However, she seemed dissatisfied with this solution.

For a week, my wife discussed hiring a mother to take care of her mother at the hospital.The reason she gave her maybe she was hospitalized for a month for treatment, if this continued like this would greatly affect the work at the office.Meanwhile, those who care for patients are experienced, they will do very well the support for her to go to the toilet, eat and drink or help her practice.

The reasons she gave very eloquently made me unconsciously felt heartfelt about my selfish wife.

My father died early, my mother lived alone in the countryside.I repeatedly offered my mother to stay with but she refused.The hometown has a spacious garden land, she made a chicken farm to earn more income and accumulated any money to send to my two brothers with the reason for the children to go to school.Even the apartment we bought also had half of the money she collected from the breeding.

Also because of working a lot, my mother neglected health, to the extent of stroke.My wife should have considered this an opportunity for filial piety, but only for a week to take care of it, I wanted to run away, pouring the burden for others.Although my wife said she would still go to the hospital every day, bringing her breakfast and dinner, I still felt wrong.

As a bride, she could completely take a leave for a while to wholeheartedly take care of her mother -in -law.Yet she was busy working at the office, only taking advantage of running back and forth, for a few days trying to quit duty at the hospital for others.She knew that the sick was very easy to pity, always wanted her children to be on her side, take care of themselves, if there was a stranger, they would be pleased.If she is angry, it will affect psychology, which can make the disease last longer.

Seeing me resolutely disagree, my wife showed a blame, saying I did not respect her work.The wife told her that she could only try for 2 weeks, if it lasted, she would definitely find Cham people.The words she said pushed me in a awkward position, because I knew the time when my mother's treatment would take at least 1 month.

I could not quit my job to take care of my mother all day, and hire people, I was afraid my mother would think and affect my health.In this time, a married man is a support, but my wife just insisted on her own will, but she did not count on her husband's analysis.

While taking care of my mother in the hospital and tense with my wife, I was very tired.We hope readers give me advice to be able to arrange everything well.